Why It's Easier to Succeed With Wedding Than You Might Think

how to succeed in business or with brunettes or blondes they're all important missions, wouldn'tyou agree? well, here's one way to tackle the brunette problem

Why It's Easier to Succeed With Wedding Than You Might Think, see what you think first of all be late that will show her you're a

busy important person that you're not too interested in her play hard to get, after all your worthwaiting for. this will make a great first impression then, laugh it off apologize ah, come on, don't be a square okay, now the topper show her what a sense of humor you haveby holding her coat just a little bit

too high that's right next, be masterful, protective grasp her arm firmly and steer her down those steps to the car she can see that you are the aggressivemasculine type what are you doing opening the door? you'll spoil your image oh, that's better. treat her as an equal, women like that besides, if you're late, there is no sense wasting time on things she can do for herself let's face it sometimes it's just notenough time for good manners

doors afford a continued supply ofchances to make an impression on your companion don't pass one up, it's always good for a laugh and an opportunity to show off your leadershipqualities how? by leading the way, going first. naturally! that's a boy keep leading the way good naval officers always lead their men or their women in this case

when you get to your table sit down immediately shows you're relaxed help with her coat? well, you helped her on with it besides it's her coat, she should havechecked it anyway oh yes make sure you're seated so you can seewhat's going on too makes for a much more interesting evening

now, here's perfect opportunity todemonstrate your independence remain seated after all it's not during working hours and you are doing him afavor by presenting your date to him on the other hand she should be impressed by meeting asenior officer hmm, no question about it this young lady will be grateful forsuch a lovely evening with a charming person like you

that's one approach to the problem ofhow to succeed with brunettes suppose we consider another way and see what you think how about starting by being on time not just for a date but for any social engagement orbusiness appointment this indicates you are a dependablebusiness like person that the appointment means something to you and let's face it

a good looking girl isn't going to waitaround too long for anybody too many young men on the prowl make it easy for her to slip into her coat hold it at the right height that's being thoughtful watch them hair if you muss it, you're going to lose points no, you don't grab her arm

you offer assistance if she needs it or wants it she'll take your hand or perhaps your arm but once the need for assistance is pastshe'll give it back to you so don't be surprised yes doors do offer an excellent chanceto make a good impression it's a way to show your respect forladies

or your seniors for that matter thoughtfulness, making things easier for someone else this is at the heart of good manners and in the heart of every gentleman besides it's the way to succeed with brunettes ladies first it's an old saying but a good one ninetypercent of the time

of course if you're going to bring arestaurant or something comparable and there's no maitre'd or hostess to leadyou to a table then you would lead the way and select a table she'll expect you to help her off with her coat and arrange it over the back of herchair so it's not all over the floor no, she shouldn't have checked it it is common practice for a lady to wearcoat to the table although if she indicates a preference forchecking it

that's fine too there, she has an excellent view of the room good thinking you want her to have a good time and being able to see what's going on will be half of the fun if you have a visitor and you probably will when you have acompanion like that stand to show your respect for a senior or a lady

this isn't just military etiquette it's being a gentleman and you present a man even if it's the admiral himself toa lady respect again it's his pleasure to meet her in this case there isn't much doubt about it check the menu with your date and if you have any knowledge about thespecialties of the house or know of

particularly good dishes let her in on it but once you have both decided you do the ordering well that's another approach to how tosucceed with brunettes looks like a winner, wouldn't you say? let's take another typical situation going to the theater. you know, there seems tobe something wrong here ahh

that's it he's walking on the wrong side wonder what his next move will be. a taxi and that means a door and that means, yes sir, this fellow's a born leader one thing you could say, he's consistentisn't he? but wait a minute, what's happening here? the girl out first? well, i guess he boxed himself in by gettinginto the taxi first. ah, too bad. but he'll make it up.

that's right, pick the seats you want pardon me sir, sorry about that now settle down and enjoy the movie. nothing like a little snack to add to the fun and your neighbors will love you what do you say we go through the situationagain the right way the way that's successful with brunettes that's more like it

you walk on the curb side at all times or on her left and when you part company or meet a lady a salute is the proper greeting or farewell it's the same thing is tipping your hatwhen you're in civilian clothes believe me, the brunette is impressed that's right, ladies first it's a good rule most of the time

and logical if you consider that thereason is to make things easier for the lady now here's one of those situations wherethe lady doesn't go first the reason you go first is to makethings easier for her to open the door and assist her in getting out of the automobile it makes sense just as most gentlemanly traditions do right, its her decision on where to sit, not yours if you want to make a good impression

be considerate of the other personadjust your preferences to hers and if you feel you must nibble on something during the show at least do it quietly out of consideration for your neighbors well, you're squared away on how to succeed in restaurants andtheaters let's take another situation a small gathering in a home or officer's club

uh oh... i have a feeling we're going tosee anything but the right way to do things anyway the necessity for making and acknowledging introductions occurs frequently it should be done correctly but i wouldn't bet on it in this case mrs. ruer i'd like you to meet mary jackson and midshipman williams.a perfect introduction man presented to lady. looks as thoughhe's going to ring her hand off, doesn't it? and who knows whether she wanted toshake hands or not

of course she had no choice his hand wasout quicker than a waiters in a nightclub oh hello there i'd like for these good looking women to meet you. mary, this is mr. prin, mr. prin, this is mary how do you do?good evening, mary mrs. childs, mrs. ruer, i'd like to have you shake hands with the commander mrs. childs, mrs. ruer ugh its almost unbelievable, isn't it?

this young man puts bad mannersback-to-back first he calls a senior officer mister, instead of by his rank he still doesn't get on his feet and he presents the ladies to thecommander instead of vice versa and i do believe he was going to ignorethe two ladies completely if it hadn't been for the commander well, we better run through the wholething again the right way because you do want to be successful with those brunettes, right? we have three children.three children?

how old are they?22, 19, and ...excuse me mrs. ruer, i'd like you to meet mary jackson and midshipman brown how do you do, mary?how do you do, mrs. ruer?how do you do? jack is in your husband's battalion oh, good evening, commandergood evening mrs. childs, mrs. ruer, miss jackson this is commander primhow do you do? i believe he was aboard the consolationwhen your husband was, mrs. childs that's all you succeed in being agentleman

and impress brunettes wait until a lady offers her hand and shake it briefly firm, but not crushing you get on your feet for a lady or your a senior in rank or age as a matter of fact it's good manners toacknowledge of introduction to anybody by rising perfect, the senior officer addressed by his rank

you're on your feet and the man is presented to the ladies a good way to remember this is to mention the names of the ladies or senior officers first in the introduction in a case of introducing one person to agroup just follow a simple practice the single person is introduced to thegroup if this group had been larger you wouldhave said this is commander prim

then ticked off the names of each memberof the group nice to meet you how do you do? alright let's consider a more formal situationthe receiving line it looks as though we're going to geta lesson in how not to succeed in being a gentleman let's see how it goes hi, i'm charlie williams, how are you doing?

mrs. kaufman, may i present midshipman williams? mrs. kaufman, brilliant, nice party. glad you invited us.midshipman williams oh hello there admiral, how are ya? nice party. nice to see you oh say, weren't you on the on the salmon if my memory serves me correctly during the korean war? the hell i was, mr. williams he's making points with the admiral but what about the girl? he went through the line without eventhinking about her

she may as well as come alone i wouldn't give him much hope for anysuccess with her other than that what do you think about the rest of hisbehavior? more important still how do you think those people feel? let's take this situation again theright way you'll note that the young lady does nothold your arm that is correct

and you walk on her left as you near the line allow her to move ahead no handshaking with the aid or escort however the first person in line maybethe host or hostess at times so if the hand is offered take it of course that's a very simple rule just wait until the other person offersto shake hands

mrs. jackson, mrs. kaufman midshipman miss jackson this is the way to go through areceiving line if an aid or a dance chairman or somesimilar person heads up the line you do not shake hands further, as in all handshaking situations you wait for ladies and seniors to extend their hands before you shake hands

your date precedes you in line as usual it's ladies first and you move through the line quickly with no stops for conversation this just isn't the time or the placeto be talkative your remarks maybe how do you do sir good evening, sir or similar brief or courteous comments

after the line well, let's take a look here's a beautiful way to succeed withbrunettes at a dance, at a party wherever you may go leave her to shift for herselfoccasionally she'll appreciate you all the more when you do return heh, sure she will when you are with her be affectionate

show her and the other people presentjust how much you care for her. she'll love it if she happens to be an exhibitionist and for goodness sake don't let anything or anybody spoil your fun, and don't get stuck being a nursemaid forsomebody else's date let him worry about her a good way to make an impression is hold your partner tightly, moving all over the dance floor, she'll love it want to dance all night with you

shall we rest for awhile? i feel as though i'm coming down with a cold or something. maybe you could take me home and then there's the right way to do things make sure your date has a good time meets and dances with your friends at other times your place is with her be considerate that's your main obligation and if another young lady is left alonefor some reason standby until her escort appears

consideration for others, kindness this being a gentleman dancing. this is good duty, no question aboutthat enjoy, but be in good taste show respect for your date and her reputationreputation and she will respect you success with brunettes or blondes or just about anybody is built upon respect

and being a gentleman is to command respect how to succeed with brunettes be a gentleman